Monday, August 27, 2007

ADOPTION DAY!!!












August 27
“Every Good and Perfect Gift Comes From Above”

Today is a day of celebration, it is Caleb’s “Gotcha Day”! We had court today and the verdict was read and we are now officially the very proud parents of Caleb Benjamin Collier! Court was at 11am this morning. We were a bit nervous this morning. There was a lot to get together; speeches, gifts, donations, pictures and ourselves. We were picked up at 10:40 by our driver and interpertor. We went to the courthouse and were ushered into a large room, with no chairs and told to wait. About 20 minutes later we were called into the judges office (a female). We were accompanied by our interpertor, secretary to the Minister of Education, Dr. Victoria and a prosecutor. The judge gave a short speech describing why we were gathered etc. Then, Ethan stood and gave a five minute speech describing our marriage, why we chose Caleb, and asking the court to grant us custody. I then stood and gave my four line speech. The judge asked me if we had looked at other children before choosing Caleb, if I had looked into other countries, why Kazakhstan and not other countries. Then the doctor stood and talked about Caleb’s medical history. The prosecutor stood and stated he felt we should be granted custody. We all left the room, and were called back in two minutes later, we all stood and she said that the decision of the court was that we’d become his parents and his name be changed to Caleb
Benjamin Collier! What a time of rejoicing! Even though in our hearts he has been our son since we first laid eyes on him, it is a relief to have the official verdict read and become his legal parents. We left court, went to the store to pick up a cake for the hospital staff and drove to the hospital. We went into the doctor’s office where a nurse brought Caleb into us. He looked a little shell shocked at first to see us outside of his “room”. We took some pictures, goodbyes and thank-you’s were said and then we carried our son out to the car and were taken home to the hotel. We laid him on our bed and just stared at him. He started crawling all around, looking at things, like the veil had been taken off from his eyes. He has squeeled, laughed and babbled more in two hours then he did in the 20 days we visited him at the hospital. We then gave him a bottle, we were a little nervous that he would not take it since the nipple was a much slower flow than what he was used to, but no problems, He actually took it easier and slower than the one at the hospital. Then the long a waited bath time! He was such a champ, never a fuss or a cry even when Ethan poured the water over his head. After we dried him off he could hardly keep his little eyes open, we put a diaper and a tee shirt on him and laid him in his new crib, he did not cry just, fell asleep. He has now been asleep for 2 ½ hours. Ethan keeps going to the room just dying to wake him, I have held him back. I do not think waking a sleeping baby is a great idea. We do have one minor obstacle, there is currently no electricity, so we are just wondering how we are going to give him his bottle when he awakens. We are so happy to finally have our son with us, where he belongs. We look forward to seeing what the future holds for this special little boy and are honored to have been given the responsibility of being his mother and father! Praise to Him! Our cup overflows as my grandmother would say!

19 comments:

nikki b said...

what more to say than CONGRATULATIONS!!! finally, the day you both have been anticipating for months. Mary, you look so pretty, Ethan, handsome and Caleb, happy. i am so happy for all three of you! can't wait until you are home. Congratulations again!
nikki

elizabeth said...

Dear Collier family--

Gotcha Day is certainly a blessed and wonderful day. You all look so beautiful and or handsome. God has been so faithful to you both and given you just who you needed. I am thrilled for you and can't wait for to come home--all the way home. Thanks for the pictures and updates. Have fun.
love, e

Lori said...

Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you three. Mary, love the haircut! May the days ahead bring more joy than you can imagine! Can't wait to hold this little boy & see his personality! Lori

Anonymous said...

My mom just called me and said, "read E&M's blog now." Oh my goodness. The keyboard and Liam's head are wet with my tears. Finally! He is yours. This was the great and perfect plan all along, it was just so hard to see what it could really be. We are so very happy for you. After years of praying and here it is. That is all I can say. YEAH!!Thank you God!! By the way- Mary, your hair looks AWSOME! Laurie

swooze said...

CONGRATULATION!!! It is so exciting that you finally get to have him 24/7 as legal parents!!! I am so happy for you guys- we have been waiting a long time for this day to come! I love all three of you soo much!

Gina said...

WOW Mary! I am speechless...your writing is perfect! It makes us feel like we are with you! I have chill bumps! WONDERFUL! just WONDERFUL for you guys! g

ps- were you brave enough to get your hair cut in Kaz?? you are more of a wild woman than I thought!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!!! I am so excited for you, Ethan and Caleb. The day you have been dreaming about is finally here. Can't wait to hear about your first full day with Caleb! He is a very lucky little boy to have gotten such special people for his parents! :)

Melissa

Rhonda said...

The happiness just glows off of you all! I'm sure it is an undescribable feeling to finally have Caleb with the Collier name. Keep up the good work with the blog, love the nighttime stories!

Anonymous said...

Praise God for tears of joy. My heart is so full. This blog is such a gift to us. Thank you for sharing this most precious time in your life.

Sara

Anonymous said...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Isaiah 40:31 "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength;they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." Your patience has left you with the greatest reward. May God highly be exalted for the treasure He has given you. Love and Prayers, Georja

Anonymous said...

Hey Guys, I have been emotional all day long. This truly is an answer to all our prayers and a testament to Gods' faithfulness to both of you. We love you all so much. It is hard to understand how we can love a little one so much without ever meeting him but our hearts are overflowing. Can't wait !! Love Uncle D and aunt C

Unknown said...

Praise God!
I am so excited for you. Most of all I am excited for Calab. What a day! An orphan no more! But a son of two loving and capable parents. Have a wonderful day with your son! My prayers are with you.

Anonymous said...

from ashley
I feel like shouting from the mountain tops " HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD...SING WITH ME...!!" What a beautiful reward for your patient trusting hearts. We rejoice at this moment- with you and for you. Thank you for including us in such a special season of your lives...we are blessed beyond belief by your friendship and example of faith. We love YOU deeply!
ashley, bryant, taylor, porter, & michael

Anonymous said...

Welcome to our new grandson! We love you precious boy and can't wait to see you, hold you and kiss you.
Pippa and PopPop

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! We are so happy for the three of you. No more two hour visitations. No more leaving him behind. No more tiny room. He's all yours! And the world is wide open to him now. He can go outside with the snow suit! We are celebrating with you guys...celebrating God's goodness and infinite wisdom...celebrating the precious gift He has given you today. Happy Adoption Day! Love you all. Heather and Daniel

Anonymous said...

Dear Ethan and Mary,
We just found your blog today! How beautiful is your son! Wow! He is absolutely adorable. We are soooo happy for you and are praying for your new family. We love you guys and if we can help in any way let us know! How Awesome is our God!

John and Pam Waters

Jodi said...

Mary, Ethan and Caleb:

Congratulations! You all look so happy, and it's wonderful to see another forever family!

It's so true ... God chose Caleb for you and although the path to your son was long and winding, it took you exactly where you were meant to be.

Enjoy every minute with Caleb and the rest of your time in Kazakhstan.

Best,
Jodi

Maureen Powers said...

Congratulations! What a beautiful family! The countdown home starts now - praying for safe trips home for you all!

Anonymous said...

I have been out of town and am just now getting to catch up on your blog. CONGRATULATIONS! I am so excited for you that Caleb is finally yours. You can see the joy on your face in the pictures when you are going to court that you are so happy. We are all praising God for his grace.

Love to you and Caleb Collier! Liz